Thursday, March 10, 2011

Happy at Home

Sex is certainly not the end-all focus of marriage. It is also not the ultimate form of intimacy. It is however, INVALUABLE to the nurturing of a lasting marriage between two healthy and able bodied people.

“On my wedding day, a man in his fifties who was an old family friend walked up to me and bestowed this advice: “You have a good man there, Kris. My advice to you is to keep him happy at home and he won’t wonder!” At first, I’ll have to admit, I took offense at this. My thoughts were, “Yeah, well, he’d better keep me happy at home, too!” But I found out over time that the essence of what he was saying was right (for both men and women). People are sexual creatures; we need a lot of hugging, kissing, and touching. You can’t entirely cut your husband off sexually and not expect him to crave attention elsewhere; the same, of course, would be true for you if he cut you off entirely. The reality is, most couples who are happy, are having sex! So, it’s up to you to take charge and spice up your sexy side. It’ll keep you young, and you’ll both be happy at home!” – Author Kristine Carlson

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