Saturday, June 4, 2011

Your thoughts?

We are whiplashed between an arrogant overestimation of ourselves and a servile underestimation of ourselves. – Paker Palmer
Do you ever feel this way? Do you feel like it is hard to maintain a balance of self awareness that is helpful in how you interact with others, particularly with your husband? I think it is human to feel like everything is your fault or nothing is your fault. There is a real skill in taking ownership in your marriage without taking all the blame. Blame is never helpful but positive change to help things go right sure is.

What are some ways women can take more responsibility in how happy they are in their marriages? Does showing up naked with food help? Would love to know your thoughts…

Roast Chicken for 2

A friend of mine sent this link to me. It is fun for my blog because it is a man confirming the importance men place on food on sexual attention. He provides in the article a really yummy recipe for Roast Chicken and encourages sex while the sucker is roasting. He has had great feedback from people saying that it is a fun concept and has helped people with connecting in their marriages.

I thought I would share it and would love to hear your thoughts. One thing is for sure, life is all about relationships and anything we can do to put tender attention to our marriage relationship is great in my "cook" book.