
A woman who nearly got a divorce but saved her relationship with major intervention, discusses reason why a marriage might be celibate and why it is a problem on her blog. Go here for the full blog post. I think it is important how she addresses sexual abuse as a common reason for someone not being interested in intimacy with their spouse. This is something that I have not given attention to on my blog but I am acutely aware is a real and heart breaking reality for many. I would suggest to someone with this particular situation to see a professional if you are having intimacy issues because of sexual abuse history. If you are not ready to speak to an expert, maybe start by speaking to someone, even a friend. It really needs to be addressed for your own healing progress and to help hopefully move toward continued investment in the most important relationship of your life... your marriage.

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