I recently read this article and loved it. This life is all about trying to be happy and trying to make others happy too. Our marriages are the greatest place to start both because no relationship is more impartive to our well being but also because if we can't work it out with those we have committed to love ...we will most likely never overcome our inner weaknesses. The first three items mentioned in the article really hit home when it comes to marriages. This is some awesome advice.
1. Give up your need to always be right
2. Give up your need for control
3. Give up on blame